For those that don't know my past I should share a bit of history about me. I was born intersex and forcefully assigned male. Then surgeries were done to help achieve this goal by doctors when I was young. I made my first attempt at transition in late 2005 and backed away from it in 2007 due to the environment and family.. Then after a near death experience in 2012 along with encouragement by a friend who said I needed to see a therapist and deal with things. I didn't take her up on the suggestion until after she died. Her death shook me up enough to follow through with what I needed to do. At that point I went high speed through transition. I have been hormones more than 5 years now. I had everything down below surgically corrected to undo the damage done by doctors when I was young which has made everything so much easier on me. I married my spouse Jamie in 2017. Both of us are non binary. Something that we both discovered after marriage.