@zirconia I as an Austrian gal myself can't see any reference to your personal experience made by @Iztaccihuatl
I think it was just a expression of what we as a culture (over here) see.
Thessa
Does something
you see as a culture automatically apply to
an individual whom I personally... dare I say it... may be in love with?
Heidemarie said that what he told me (in what happened to be a private and lovely moment) made her cringe. For all the reasons that she then put forth.
Note that this was in reference to a friendly and open discussion between someone whom I very much like and who likes me.
...which prompted me to feel that I probably shouldn't be as candid as I've been. At least about anything at all involving anyone
other than myself. If my words make
me a target for disapproval that's one thing. If, on the other hand, I expose someone dear to me to
completely unwarranted censure that is something different altogether. And WRONG.
I hope you now understand a bit better what it felt like to me. And what I meant above.
Complete,
thank you...â¤ï¸ It's concrete information based on experience like yours that I really need and find helpful...
And I do thank you for your support... I'm pretty much able to
imagine scenarios myself... but its what happens and has happened in
real life that counts...
It's wonderful that you were able to get what you needed. No lube and no dilation... I really want that as well. On the first try, if possible.
Skin is made up of epithelial cells.
Madame... thank you.
... I guess I don't know how to put this, and apologize if I'm totally off, but somehow this didn't sound like you wanted to be just purely helpful. I think Complete's
intent in using the word she did was clear. If there was a need for additional precision, might it not have sounded more friendly to just suggest a better term?
Heidemarie
Thank you too. I do understand you didn't intend to make me feel bad.
However, what happened made me realize how painful all this this talk of male supremacy chauvinist whatever whatever seems to me. All the men I know—or all the ones I feel close to—value their friends, families, betrothed, and work as best they can to help and support them.
I'm sure there are many men who aren't like that, but doesn't the same apply to women as well? And the only person I know personally whom the world would be better without is a woman.
We're simply programmed differently, and our biology affects our actions and traits. To see increasingly vicious attacks on what makes men
men feels incredibly sad to me.
Anyway... that's not what I wanted this thread to be about.
At the moment it seems that only Thessa and Complete currently find men to be lovable lovely exciting beings with whom it is possible to do things that make one feel incredibly blissful. And that I'm the only other one who seems predetermined to be part of that group.
There's plenty of talk about femininity and lesbian relationships and whatnot on every board. But practically no transitioner's point of view analogues to what my
new elder sisterâ„¢ï¸ Ù©( á› )Ùˆ and I would talk about when alone, or anything else we'd discuss with my other friends in the real world.
Are the plain and simple heterosexuals
truly this tiny a minority?
It makes me feel somehow lonely.
